Sunday, December 30, 2007
stick to the status quo.
if you want to be cool,
follow one simple rule,
dont mess with the flow,
stick to the status quo.
has it occured to you that being in a relationship comes with the status of 'being attached', and you are someone's 'girlfriend / boyfriend'? i know of people who are so obsessed with the idea of 'being attached', or having to find someone to be in their lives that they end up being desperate.
i dont believe in that.
what i understand is that, people so often get caught up with the pursuit of the status of being someone's girlfriend / boyfriend, that they end up losing the purpose and meaning of loving that person. loving someone doesnt require you to have a status, and it only serves to confuse things.
people spend time worrying about whether they are someone's girlfriend / boyfriend, and all these time could be put into good use in developing the relationship and bringing it to a whole new level. that being said is easier than it could be done.
at the same time, having the status of being someone's girlfriend / boyfriend, gives us the understanding and awareness that we belong to someone, and that i dont deny is a good, warm fuzzy feeling. haha. :)
i am really happy that i am yours.
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i ask myself, why am i trying so hard?
once in a lifetime means there is no second chance.i dont wish to look back many years down the road, and live to regret the fact that i did not love you hard enough.
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met up with edward to discuss tok essay over lunch at vilage -heeren, and had a tea session with john, sean and javier at coffee club, and finally dinner at manhattan's fish market with YOU.
haha. i ate a lot today. really a lot.
like i said, i love you and i will keep on doing that. :)
we belong together,
deon.
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