Wednesday, February 6, 2008
ego much?
this post is inspired by YOU.
sometimes we get so caught up by our own ego and through the process of defending it, we would say just about anything or do anything just to protect it.
Why is there a need for any form of ego when you're in a relationship with someone?
Why cant we just let go of our pride in front of the person you claim you love?
Why wont we let down the guard to our hearts even when it comes to the person you believe you can trust?
honestly, there's only 2 people in this relationship, and we're partners, companions, (as cheesy as it sounds, i shall include soul-mates), soul-mates for each other. So why should we let our pride / ego get in our way? Could it be that apologising is one of the hardest thing to do, will it deflate one's ego to be able to admit that you're wrong to the person who loves you?
i wont love you any less if you're at wrong, neither should you if i did the same. the point is, we shouldnt even be fighting over whose fault it is, or who's right and who's wrong. we need to see beyond the objective of identifying which party is at fault, and know that when two hearts are intertwined with love, the power of love (i know - cheesy) can overcome obstacles.
like you said, "if you are bothered by anything, you must always bring it up. Regardless, I will have my say. Then we must work it out as a couple. This way of thinking will get us through any difficult times. The centre of our relationship is love, that's important. Both of us still have our voices, yet we see things as one.
p.s i saved this sms. :)
i believe there is no need for any ego between the 2 of us. i'm getting to know who you are, and it is who you are that makes me love you. i dont wish to love the person who is controlled by all that ego. i know its hard to let the guard down to your heart, because i get the fears from that too. But if you trust that i'm the one for you...
...please know that i will never intentionally hurt you in a way or another,
please know that i will hold your heart in my hands as delicately as i possibly can,
and please know that i will always have you on my mind...
i'm glad that we're both on the right path.
dont stray away from me,
deon.
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